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Moms are often neglected and taken
for granted by their spouses and family. Although not intentional, it is time we make our presence know and flourish
into the forefront as well, and lead the lives we always wanted to, before we became "married with children."
Receive online support on any topic regarding family
and spouse. Look for future events posting and making this the largest network of butterfly moms emerging from our cocoons.
Unlimited advice, connections, encouragement and peer connections and support from other moms emerging into their new selves
as well. Join only if you are ready and can commit to a change. I want us all to flourish and become successful
as wives, mothers, and realizing our own potential. Special offer $9.95 per month.
Online support group connecting moms with more moms like
themselves who want more out of life, other than simple domestication. many wives are just
trapped with a life of servitude to children and husbands. There are others who are trapped financially and in violent,
abusive relationships. They can't get out of the relationship for fear of being harmed, yet they are being physically harmed
anyways by staying in the home. Most women fear failure so they just put up with what they have, and try to hide the
abuse.
If we learn to support ourselves financially, we would be better off.
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Connecting moms all over the world to help
them realize and understand their dreams and fulfill them. There are moms who are happy in the relationship of their
spouses or significant others, solely content with mediocre lifestyles of just being mom and wife. The majority of the
stay at home moms, or home schooling moms feel trapped in their lives. They want more out of life, but with their dependency
on their spouses the women do not have and idea of how to pursue their dreams. In day to day living we are constantly
encouraging our children, and support our partners in their endeavors, we have no one to support us. We may watch Oprah,
she says live your best life now, pick a few fans and help them live their wildest dreams, but the other 99% of us are
just watching as out flames of our candles burn down.
Life can get exhausting, we had such big ideas for our
wedding day, we were strong independent, and knew what we wanted. We had successful careers and financially stable for
a single woman, then our eyes got clouded by finding the right man to take care of us, and giving up all our dreams for domesticity
and childrens. Now we are in a maze with no way out, this was not how marriage was suppose to be. Sleeping beauty
just left us hanging after her wedding, and we had to make our own middle and endings.
We need to thank God for all of our strength and power.
Ladies we need to use that power to build ourselves up. We stand behind our men and build them up, we need to take that
strength and give our own egoes and esteem a boost. Once we are married we women seem to take the back seat in life.
We endure low self esteem, excess weight, let our look go, we succomb to no socializing outside the family, unless we run
to some other PTA mom or stay at home mom who is in the same predicament as we are. This lifestyle has just become the
norm for us, not realizing we should demand more out of life. We tirelessly push and encourage our children, and at
the end of the day we are beat, then we get up in the morning and start the same old monotonous routine. We smile grin
and bear it, but inside we are wandering how did we wind up here and how to get out, and still have our family intact.
Ladies it is time to gather all our smarts, and talents and become more esteemed and powerful for ourselves and that would
be the best example for our children.
E-mail at
classicdtp@yahoo.com.
angela hampton
founder, of
Emerging Butterfly Moms
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